Can you come into a group of complete strangers and talk about the death of your child?
Can you know that you are not alone in your bereavement?
Can others sincerely say to you, "I know how you feel"?
Will you not hear, "It's time you were over it and started getting on with your life" and other unwelcome advice?
Can you cry without feeling ashamed or laugh without feeling guilty?
Can you just listen and not talk if you do not wish to?
Can you reach out to newly bereaved parents who are experiencing the grief and pain you have felt?
Can you share the love and memories of your child(ren) with others?